The holidays can be a strange mix of fun and stress. You might look forward to the lights, the food, and the time with people you care about, yet still feel your body tense as your to-do list grows. One minute you’re trying to wrap gifts or answer messages, and the next you feel tired, irritated, or overwhelmed for reasons that are hard to explain. You’re not alone—your
body is simply reacting to a busy season that asks a lot from you.
When stress shows up, your brain tells your body to release cortisol. This hormone helps you handle challenges, but when it stays high for too long, it can affect your mood, your patience, and your ability to focus. It also gets in the way of good sleep. That’s why you might stay awake replaying the day or thinking about everything you still need to do. Over time, stress can
make small problems feel bigger and drain your energy faster than usual.
The holidays make this even tougher. Money gets tight, family expectations rise, and your schedule fills up with events, errands, and responsibilities. You may feel pressure to make everything “perfect” even when you’re running on empty. On top of that, shorter days and less sunlight can weigh on your mood, especially if you already feel stretched thin. You don’t need
huge changes to feel better—you just need small, steady habits that give your mind a break.
Here are a few ideas that take less than 10 minutes:
• Start your morning with one minute of slow breathing. Place your hand on your chest and take three calm breaths before checking your phone.
• Get outside for at least two minutes. Even a quick walk to the mailbox or a step onto your porch can boost your mood.
• Take a short pause before meals. One deep breath helps your body relax and shifts you out of stress mode.
• Tidy one small spot for three minutes. A clear counter, nightstand, or desk can make your space feel more peaceful.
• Say one kind thing to yourself each day. A small moment of self-respect can change the tone of your whole afternoon.
If this season feels heavier than you expected, there’s nothing wrong with you. Stress affects everyone. With a few simple habits, you can create more calm, protect your energy, and move through the holidays with a little more ease. If you need a little support along the way, our compassionate team at New U Therapy Center & Family Services is here for you.