How To Find Gratitude All Season Long

It’s winter again! Even Californians have to endure shorter, darker days that leave us all wanting a little bit of extra daylight and warmth. There’s no doubt that this time of year can be challenging for some as seasonal depression creeps in. Add to that the additional stress of the holiday season, and it’s easy to see why the ‘most wonderful time of year’ isn’t as wonderful as the movies make it out to be.

The good news is that a bit of gratitude can go a long way when it comes to boosting your mood. The key is tuning into the little sources of light each day because gratitude can make even the gloomiest day transformative.

If you are struggling to be thankful this holiday season, here are a few ways you can cultivate gratitude to build resilience and personal happiness in your life.

Embrace Gratitude As A Daily Practice

Gratitude isn’t just a feeling that randomly occurs when good things happen. It’s something that you actively look for and appreciate. When we make gratitude a daily habit, we train our minds to find the good even in difficult situations. On bad days, this practice becomes a lifeline that helps us navigate  challenges.


Start by setting aside a few minutes each day to reflect on the things you’re grateful for. Be specific, but don’t overthink it. For example, you could be thankful for something as simple as enjoying a cup of morning coffee, the warmth of your favorite blanket, or the support of a caring friend. Recognizing these small moments of good can have a big impact on your overall outlook, even during a tough day.

Shift Your Perspective To Find Silver Linings

Take it from our team of psychiatric professionals; shifting your perspective can help boost your mood. Instead of dwelling on what went wrong, try to focus on the lessons you’ve learned or the unexpected opportunities that challenges in life can bring. This change in mindset can help you see the silver linings even on the darkest days. By finding gratitude in the opportunity to learn and grow, you can turn a seemingly bad day into a chance for personal development.


Connect With Others

Human beings are social creatures. Our connections with others play a significant role in our well-being. On bad days, reaching out to friends, family, or even support groups can help you find gratitude in the connections you’ve cultivated. Sometimes, sharing your challenges and being heard can be a source of comfort and gratitude in itself.

In fact, science tells us that acts of kindness, no matter how small, can create a sense of meaning and purpose in your life. Remember that kindness is contagious, especially during the holiday season, so don’t be afraid to spread it around like confetti.

Use Gratitude As A Resilience-Building Tool All Year

When you practice finding gratitude on your worst days, you are building resilience. By cultivating gratitude, you train your mind to focus on the positive aspects of life, which can help you weather storms with grace and determination.


This holiday season, remember that gratitude helps reduce stress, improve mental health, and enhance your overall quality of life. It’s a powerful tool that can transform your perspective and empower you to face life’s challenges with a resilient spirit. If you need extra help managing your mood this holiday season, our team has in-person and virtual psychiatry appointments available for support.